ok u guys have just gotta mind me k. i just wanna LET go of some of my thoughts here which i CANNOT do it in my blog. haha so here goes!!~~
I'm just SO SICK & TIRED of all these "oh im SO FAT" or "she's so FAT!" etc etc crapppp!!!
i'm SICK !! SICK!!! SICK and DISGUSTED by all these shallow talks and thoughts!!!!!!!!!
my gosh!!! WAKE UP PPL!!!!!!!!!!!!
weight and appearance is NOT the BIGGEST thing on earth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
so STOP!!!! STOP being depressed and SO bothered about feeling so called "FAT" okayy!!!!!!!!!
arghh! my goodnesss!
what bothers me the most is when that person is NOT even fat !!!! in fact, THIN!!! and she STILL complains that she's FAT. aiyo
I think nowadays, FAT is the synonym to NOT SKINNY.
pleaaaaaase ppl!!! that's sooooooo NOT the meaning of FAT okay !!!!!!!!!
FAT means having TOO MUCH flabby tissue that is unhealthy to ur body okayy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if you're not just skin+bones, if u have a TEEENY WEEENY bit of flesh or flabs or fats, it DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE FAT. OKAY.
i repeat, having a bit of fats underneath your skin DOES NOT mean you're FAT!
and im sure thats what everyone wants. to be super skinny and fit into those Size 00 clothes, so that u could look like those robot-supermodels on the runway. well thats what the media is promoting anyways. that's the IN thing now, right?
it's HEALTHY to have fats under your skin!! in fact if u dont have fats/flesh, YOU ARE UNHEALTHY.
if you're SO FAT that it's causing danger to your heart, then THAT'S FAT.
my gosh!!!!!!! ppl's thinking nowadays is SO SHALLOW !!!! everything is SO BASED on PHYSICAL APPEARANCE.
pleeeeeeeeeeeasssee! WAKE UP!!!! physical beauty DOESNT last FOREVER !!
so STOP looking into the mirror, squeezing those healthy fats out, giving a big loud sigh complaining bullshit like "ohh im sooooooo fat!!"
again, IF YOU'RE NOT SKINNY DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE FAT!
so STOP feeling bad about yourself, STOP feeling depressed, STOP envying others, STOP wishing u were like someone else, STOP feeling insecure, STOP starving yourself, STOP controlling yourself from enjoying life!! just STOP STOP STOP and WAKE UP !!!!!!!!!!
seriously, it BOTHERS me SO MUCH when i hear skinny ppl who still complains that they are FAT that i just feel like slapping them upside down and punch them right in the nose !!!!
worse still, some skinny ppl are already skinny and they DONT realize it!!! they still think they're FAT!! my gosh what is freaaaking wrong with this world???!?!?!!?
STOP putting physical appearance on top of your list and START WAKING UP!!
BEAUTY DOES NOT LAST FOREVER.
you know what? i'd rather be fat and have a guy who deeply loves me for who i REALLY am deep down inside so when i grow old, wrinkly, flabby and saggy he STILL loves me for who i am inside; rather than being an attractive model-thin person, get married to a really handsome rich man, who judges SO MUCH on physical appearance that when he sees u grow old and saggy, he gets bored of your wrinkly-yellow-face, and goes out to look for beuatiful young women.
let me tell u this, if YOU YOURSELF judge so much based on physical appearance, your other half, will too be influenced by YOUR thoughts and start judging others by their physical appearnce as well. then ur just digging your own grave.
WAKE UP, GIRLS !!!!!!!!!!
INNER BEAUTY REALLY DOES MATTER OKAY !
in fact i think it matters MORE than outer beauty !! it's more valuable and it's TRUE BEAUTY.
i dont understand why ppl feel it's an insult when others say things like "welll..i guess what she has is just inner beauty..." *slaps forehead*
inner beauty is PRICELESS, OKAY. physical beauty is soooooo....i dunno. u can just do anything nowadays to look good. i mean it's not wrong to make yourself look good and attractive coz im sure thats what everyone likes including me, BUT!!! thats a HUUUUUUUUUUUGE BUT!
BUT, if u start feeling depressed and insecure about the way u look, then ur giving PHYSICAL APPEARANCE TOO MUCH PRIORITY AND ATTENTION. which is BAD AND UNHEALTHY!!
what makes thing worse is when you're not just feeling unsatisfied about yourself and complaining about being fat, what's worse is that when u see someone else who;s NOT SKINNY as well, and telling them "hey stop eating so much and go on a diet la !" or "ehh ur damn fat alrdy la, control yourself la" etc etc bullshit like that !!
u know what? leave them !! they wanna eat, let them eat !! at least they are smart enough to enjoy life and to live life full! if they feel good about themselves, that's GREAT NEWS !!! even if they're NOT MODEL-THIN, as long as they're happy about themselves, leave them alone!!
especially when u know really they're fatter than u !!!
even if YOU think YOU'RE fat, just SHUT UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT YOURSELF IN FRONT OF OTHERS!
DONT say stupid negative things and putting them down !!! YOU are the one who should WAKE UP and start looking at yourself !!!
and GUYS ESPECIALLY, STOP INSULTING GIRLS WHO ARE NOT MODEL-THIN OKAY! STOP SAYING THEY ARE FAT JUST BECAUSE THEY HAVE SOME TUMMY STICKING OUT OR IF THEY HAVE FLABBY ARMS OR IF THEY HAVE A HUGE ASS/HUGE THIGHS FILLED WITH CELLULITES !!!!!!!!!!!!!! ESPECIALLY NOT IN FRONT OF GIRLS !!!
you will only make them feel over-conscious & sensitive about their own physical appearance!!!
and u will rob them of their confidence and self-respect !!!!!!! PLEEEEEAAASSEEE!!!
and u guys always complain that girls always say they are fat, that they ALWAYS wanna go on a diet, and that they always ask u silly questions like "honestly, do u think i'm fat?" etc etc.
it;s because of u SMART GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!! SUCH SHALLOW THINKING!! pleaaase la! we girls are NOT celebs who can afford to spend thousands and millions on plastic surgery, liposuction, hire personal dietition and personal trainers and make up artists to make us look perfect okayy !!!!
we are just normal girls who are REAL!!!! so STOP saying "wahlauuuu daaaamn FAT man that girl!! damn yuck laaa!!" , or "wahlauuu that girl daaamn ugly la!!" etc etc etc. please!! and it's so unfair that girls have to be stick-thin, and guys can have a bulging tummy without getting a laugh about it.
LOOK, WOMEN have NATURAL FATS OKAY! thats the way God made us, so ACCEPT IT! WE HAVE FATS ON OUR ARMS, TUMMY, HIPS, BUTT and THIGHS!! IT'S ONLY NATURAL AND HEALTHY!!! and CURVY IS SEXY OKAY! you cant be curvy if u dont have flesh/fats !!!!!!!!!! -_- geeeez!
so stop judging other girls !!! especially in front of your gf !!!!!
mygosh! ppl nowadays are just SO LOST AND BLINDED !!! whatever happened to the Marilyn Monroe-type-of-body trend?!?!?! i guess ppl in the ancient days are just smarter than us because they dont promote stupid unhealthy things like "u have to be stick-thin to look good"! and they have better taste than us coz they know how to appreciate the natural body shape of a woman !!!!!!!!!!!
I STILL THINK CURVY IS SEXY. stick-thin and model-skinny is just SO NOT FEMININE. having boobs and butt and a shapely body IS feminine.
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS, AS LONG AS YOU;RE HEALTHY, STOP WORRYING AND FEELING DEPRESSED !!!!!!!
what matters most is that you're HEALTHY and HAPPY !! and everyone just LOVES you just the way u are especially your other half !!!!!!!
stop torturing yourself trying to attract that guy or to live up to HIS expectations!! if he judges u so much based on your physical appearance, u know he's not a good guy and he doesnt really love the REAL YOU INSIDE !!! one day when u grow old n saggy he's just gonna look for someone else young n beautiful!!!
instead, look for guys who ADORE you for the person u are INSIDE, and not OUTSIDE. coz physical stuff is just SO TEMPORARY and INSIGNIFICANT compared to your whooooooole life !!!!!!!
so STOP !!!! STOP JUDGING OTHERS!! STOP MAKING SUCH A BIG FUSS ABOUT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE !!!STOP DOING STUPID SHALLOW THINGS !!! STOP THINKING SO LOWLY !!!! STOP DESTROYING YOURSELF AND OTHERS !!!
START LOVING YOURSELF JUST THE WAY YOU'RE MADE !!! START LOVING EVERYONE ELSE JUST THEY ARE MADE!!!
and im sure everyone knows this, no matter how beautiful u are on the outside, if ur attitude sucks ur just ugly. THIS statement already shows that INNER BEAUTY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN PHYSICAL BEAUTY. so stop taking inner beauty as an insult !!! it is the greatest compliment anyone can get !!! when ur beautiful inside, you have TRUE BEAUTY and that's what matters !!
what i really wanna emphasize is,
i hope this entry will at least put something into ur heads! i really sincerely hope that everyone will just accept and love themselves just the way u're made. never compare urself with others. everyone is just beautiful in their own ways. no one has the rights to set a perfect standard unless you are God.
God made each and everyone of us in His own hands, just as mentioned in the bible He made us all perfect in HIS OWN IMAGE. it is not right for us to say "no one is perfect."
EVERYONE IS PERFECT, maybe not in our eyes but in GOD'S EYES, because what God can see is BEYOND our physical eyes. if u say you yourself/someone else is not perfect, ur judging on God's creations. and WHO ARE WE to judge??
especially women, God made women AFTER He created Adam! that proves that WE women are the IMPROVISED and the more PERFECTED version of men !!
what matters is the real u deep down inside. the one that human eyes cant see. the one only YOU and GOD knows. we all know that our physical body is just temporary. every physical thing in this world is temporary. everything physical fades away and perish. the most important thing is the REAL YOU INSIDE.
so be thankful and be happy with who u are, love yourself and respect yourself !! never let human words affect u !!!
because all of us are human, we are all weak, and because we live in such a superficial world today, we all need to stand strong and assure each other. love each other just the way each and everyone of u are. stop judging yourself, stop judging others. Try to look at everything and everyone through God's eyes and not human eyes.
i really hope everyone will read this entry through and think about each and every word i said.this is really an important issue that's getting worse everyday.
LOVE YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE MADE, FOR WHAT'S REALLY INSIDE OF YOU IS FAR BEYOND WHAT HUMAN EYES CAN SEE.
*adapted and edited from my fren's blog.*
i was reading thru n i realized YEA!!~~ this world is seriously getting crazy over this fatness issue. so i really really hope u guys will read thru it n THINK bout it!!!! dun worry ppl. no matter how fat u are, u're NOT FAT.